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Lesbian Terms, Code & Signalling Through Sapphic History

Clued up on Lesbian Slang but how many historical Lesbian Terms, Lesbian Code and Lesbian Signalling do you know? Once upon a time Lesbians were termed: inverts, tribades, uranians ...
Browse this timeline of lesbian terms, secret code and lesbian signals & symbols through sapphic history - some terms may make you recoil.

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A Jagged Timeline of Lesbian Terms & Code Words

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     * This a very sketchy timeline of lesbian terms, secret code and lesbian signals & symbols as historical info is sparse and, continuously being discovered and, debated.

     * Though some terms have been reappropriated, citing these (often derogatory and hurtful) terms below, is only for educational purposes.

     * My desired iconic reference source of Oxford English Dictionary is online subscription based at ... £100 p.a.! No way, José am I forking out on that.

Key English Dictionary Reference Sources:

     * The Cambridge Dictionary | The Collins Dictionary | Oxford English Dictionary



c. 630: Sappho

Lesbian Terms: Sappho

Preaching to the choir ;) once upon a time, on the island of Lesbos lived a beautiful Greek poet called Sappho who centuries later became a symbol of love and desire between women with the words "sapphic" and "lesbian" being derived from her name and the name of her home island of Lesbos.

A Fascinating Graph: Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Sappho". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Sappho in literature through time

Google Books Ngram Viewer is an online search engine that charts the frequencies of any set of search strings found in their database of printed sources published, that reportedly contains 500 billion words from 5.2 million books, between the time period of 1500 to 2022. Only matches found in at least 40 books are displayed in the graph. Though limitations have been pointed out, the data set, may still give a very rough quantitative, glimpse into linguistic change. Unfortunately, for some lesbian terms below, I was unable to generate a graph as some terms have multiple meanings e.g. Dyke can also mean a geological term (which makes me childishly giggle every time, as I am an ex-geologist).

c. 335 - 323 BC: Lesbian Rule

Lesbian Terms: Saphho

Lesbian Rule: Oxford Dictionary Definition of Lesbian Rule = a mason's rule made of lead, which could be bent to fit the curves of a moulding. The etymology of Lesbian Rule comes from the the island of Lesbos as these flexible rulers were originally constructed of a pliable type of lead found specifically on the island of Lesbos.

The term Lesbian Rule is alluded to by, Greek philosopher, Aristotle, in his treatises Nicomachean Ethics:

"For what is itself indefinite can only be measured by an indefinite standard, like the leaden rule used by Lesbian builders; just as that rule is not rigid but can be bent to the shape of the stone, so a special ordinance is made to fit the circumstances of the case."

According to the OED, in the 17th century, the phrase "Lesbian Rule" was commonly used in English in a figurative sense, referring to "a principle of judgement that is pliant and accommodating."

1553: Sapphic Verse

Lesbian Terms: Sapphic Verse

Sapphic Verse: The term "Sapphic", was initially used in reference to the characteristic four-line stanzas and poetic meters of Sappho's poetry. Rather than getting my "trochees" and "dactyls" in a twist - check out classicalpoets.org for an explanation of Sapphic verse.

The Oxford English Dictionary's earliest evidence for the use of the word "Sapphic" is from around 1553, in the writing of Gavin Douglas, Scottish poet and Bishop of Dunkeld (Perthshire, Scotland) in reference to Sappho's (our girl's) use of unique and impactful meter / strophe. This surely, helps reflect (ancient Greek's) Sappho's impact and contribution to the progression of the art form of poetry.

See below, when "Sapphic" started becoming a synonym for "lesbians" and / or "lesbianism".

1601: Tribade

Lesbian Terms: Tribade

Lesbian Term: Tribade: Oxford Dictionary Definition of Tribade = a lesbian. The etymology of Tribade via Latin tribas a lesbian, from Greek tribein to rub. The delightful term Tribbing = ... scissoring!

The term Tribade is recorded as early as 1601, in Ben Jonson's Praeludium (Poem X in The Forest):

Or, with thy tribade trine, invent new sports

A Fascinating Graph: Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Tribade". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Tribade in literature through time

1660: Travesti

Lesbian Terms: Travesti

Transvestite Term: Travesti: Travesti is a theatrical term referring to the portrayal of a character in an opera, play, or ballet by a performer of the opposite sex.

Since the presence of real women on stage was considered immoral until the late 17th century in England and the late 18th century in the Papal States, on stage, women were portrayed by male actors in drag. With the Restoration of Charles II in 1660 women started appearing on the English stage, both in female and male roles. Amongst the 19th century actresses who made a mark in travesti roles were Mary Anne Keeley, Maude Adams and Sarah Bernhardt.

Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Transvestite". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Transvestite in literature through time

1654 to 1715: The Game of Flats

Lesbian Terms: The Game at Flats / The Game Of Flats

The Game at Flats / The Game Of Flats: Lesbian: An early slang term for lesbian sex. "Game of flats". Why the bizarre term "Game of flats" as a euphuism for lesbian sex? In the early 18th century, playing cards were sometimes known as "flats" and ... hmm, I will leave the rest to your imagination.

Two examples of the use of the term "game of Flatts" are in:

1654-1655 - a "report" in the "newsbook" Mercurius Fumigosus which was published between 1654-55 by John Crouch (a Royalist journalist who had been previously imprisoned by Oliver Cromwell's government for his two previous "newsbook"):

They walk out hand in hand like two disconsolate Virgins to seek Mandrakes to help them make perfect what their lost Sweethearts have left behinde, their concupiscence being so predominant in the House of Venus, that being at a game of Flatts upon a bed, a young man hearing the bed tell tales, steping softly to the door, discovered the Jogg, and so returned, myuch pittying the extremities poor female mortalls are driven to by the unkindness of men’ | Source

1715 - a satirical song titled "The Game at Flats" by English dramatist and poet Nicholas Rowe:

While SAPPHO with harmonious Airs
Her dear PHILENIS charms,
With equal Joy the Nymph appears
Dissolving in her Arms ... | Source

FYI Nicholas Rowe was appointed Poet Laureate (an honorary position appointed by the monarch of the United Kingdom) in 1715!

A more risqué slang term, used round about that time was 'tipping the velvet' - according to fab writer Sarah Waters, 'velvet', meant 'tongue'. If you haven't worked it out ... it rhymes with "cunning linguistic" ;)

1732: Lesbian

Lesbian Terms: Lesbian

Lesbian Term: Lesbian: Collins Dictionary definition of Lesbian = used to describe gay women. The etymology of Lesbian is via Latin from Greek Lesbios, from Lesbos - a Greek island which was the home of Greek poet Sappho, who expressed affection for women in her poetry.

Seriously, can the following be true? Apparently, during the four decades it took to create the 12-volume Oxford English Dictionary (OED), completed in 1928, the word Lesbian appeared only in reference to the island of Lesbos. Only with OED's 1976's Supplement did the word Lesbian appear as an 1890 synonym for Tribadism.

Although the term lesbian was used in the 1890 National Medical Dictionary by the American surgeon and librarian John Shaw Billings, as an adjective to describe tribadism (as "lesbian love") there are earlier mentions of the term Lesbian in for example... 1732 - William King's poem "The Toast":

A nobler Verse – The British Myra sings;
The mighty Thing, which Lesbian Loves began,

1866 - Algernon Charles Swinburne's poem "Sapphics":

Saw the Lesbians kissing across their smitten,
Lutes with lips more sweet than the sound of lute-strings,

A Fascinating Graph: Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Lesbian". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Lesbian in literature through time

Compare this graph to Google Trends results for searches in Google, for the word "Lesbian". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Lesbian in Google Search through time

1773: Tommy

Lesbian Terms: Tommy

In the late 18th century, the word "Tommy" was used as a slang term for a woman who was into women. By the gender inference of the term, it implied that a "Tommy" was an unusually masculine woman. The term possibly was a play on "Molly" which was used for male homosexuals and the "Molly houses" of the time where gay men and "gender-nonconforming" people could meet. Examples of the usage of the "queer" term "Tommy" are:

1773: in a a satirical poem - "The Adulteress" by Anon

"Woman with Woman act the Many Part,
And kiss and press each other to the heart.
Unnat'ral Crimes like these my Satire vex,
I know a thousand Tommies 'mongst the Sex." | Source

1778: as a footnote to the poem "A Sapphick Epistle" from "Jack Cavendish to the Honourable and most beautiful Mrs D****" [FYI Mrs D**** = English sculptor Anne Damer née Conway]

"She was the first Tommy the world has upon record; but to do her justice, though there hath been many Tommies since, yet we never had but one Sappho." | Source

1834 - After Anne Lister married Ann Walker on March 30, 1834 at Holy Trinity Church in York, England an anonymous trolling announcement appeared in the The Leeds Mercury newspaper ridiculing the "marriage" of "Captain Tom Lister of Shibden Hall to Miss Ann Walker, late of Lidget, near the same place". | Source: yorkcivictrust.co.uk.

BTW - "Tommy" (or "Tommy Atkins") was also a traditional slang term for a soldier in the British Army.

1789: Sapphist

Lesbian Terms: Sapphist

Lesbian Term: Sapphist: Collins Dictionary definition of (the noun) Sapphist = a lesbian and (adjective) | Sapphic = relating to lesbians and/or lesbianism. The etymology of Sapphist is via Greek poet Sappho whose poetry often reveals her "tender affection" for ... other women.

The Oxford Dictionary's earliest evidence for the noun "Sapphist" (NB not used in a kind way) is from 1789, in a letter by Hester Lynch Piozzi née Salusbury (1741 – 1821) who was a Welsh author, diarist, and patron of the arts. I couldn't find the OED's source (groover, I'm not paying £100 p.a. for OED subscrpition), however, I did find one of Mrs Piozzi's acidic diary entries mentioning the noun, "Sapphist":

"Nature does get strangely out of Fashion sure enough: One hears of Things now, fit for the Pens of Petronius only, or Juvenal to record and satyrize: The Queen of France is at the Head of a Set of Monsters call’d by each other Sapphists, who boast her Example; and deserve to be thrown with the He Demons that haunt each other likewise, into Mount Vesuvius." | Source: Rictor Norton- "Mrs Piozzi's Reminiscences, 1770s-1790s"

A Fascinating Graph: Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Sapphist". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Sapphist in literature through time

1824: Queer

Lesbian Terms: Queer

Queer: prolific English diarist Anne Lister used the word "queer" to surprisingly mean... FANNY! That is to say she used the term "queer", in her coded diaries to mean "vulva" or sometimes "vagina". Certainly the BBCs slick Gentleman Jack series does not allude to this.

1824 - Lister 2, 12 November 1824, pg. 67:

She begins to stand closer to me. I might easily press queer to queer

1832 - Lister 3, 11 October 1832, pg. 93:

Got (for the first time) right middle finger up her queer... She whispered that she loved me

For more information check out Mette Hildeman Sjölin's Adapting the queer language of Anne Lister's diaries.

1894: One the earliest recorded uses of the term "queer" as a derogatory term for same-sex attraction, was in a letter from The Marquess of Queensberry where he used the term "queer", pejoratively, to describe homosexual men, famously targeting Oscar Wilde and his son's (Lord Alfred "Bosie" Douglas) relationship. The Marquess of Queensberry's letter was read aloud in court, during one of Oscar Wilde's court cases at the Old Bailey. (Oscar Wilde's initial libel suit against The Marquis of Queensbury was lost, upon which Wilde was arrested on charges of sodomy and gross indecency, which led to a criminal prosecution for homosexuality, imprisonment and his sad ruin).

1980s onwards: LGBT activists and community groups started reclaiming the word "Queer" - find out more at The National Archives.

1864: Uranian

Lesbian Terms: Uranian

Queer Term: Uranian: Uranian is a term that referred to homosexual men. The term Uranian was first published by Karl Heinrich Ulrichs in a series of five booklets (1864–65) collected under the title Forschungen über das Räthsel der mannmännlichen Liebe (Research into the Riddle of Man–Male Love). Ulrichs was a German Lawyer and gay, who is regarded today as a pioneer of gay rights.

Ulrichs derived the term Uranian from the Greek goddess Aphrodite Urania, who was created out of the god Uranus'... testicles! Uranian represented the homosexual gender. The term Dionian represented the heterosexual gender and was derived from Aphrodite Dionea. Apparently, Ulrichs developed his terminology before the first public use of the term homosexual, which appeared in 1869 in a pamphlet published anonymously by Karl-Maria Kertbeny.

Opera Singer Felicita Vestvali was described as being Uranian by Rosa von Braunschweig, a longtime friend, in the Yearbook of Intermediate Sexual Types (1903).

As the term "Uranian" has multiple meanings e.g. relating to or coming from the planet Uranus: the Uranian ring system or Uranian moons - no slick Google Books Ngram Viewer, citied here.

1868: Homosexual

Lesbian Terms: Homosexual

Queer Term: Homosexual: Cambridge Dictionary Definition of Homosexual = a person who is sexually attracted to people of the same sex and not to people of the opposite sex. The etymology of Homosexual via Greek homos, "same" + sexual.

The first known appearance of the word homosexual in print is found in an 1869 German pamphlet by the Austrian-born Hungarian novelist Karl (Karoly) Maria Kertbeny, published anonymously, arguing against a Prussian anti-sodomy law. However, a year earlier, on May 6, 1868, Karl Heinrich Ulrichs wrote to Kertbeny, using four new terms he had coined: "Monosexual; Homosexual; Heterosexual; und Heterogenit".

A Fascinating Graph: Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Homosexual". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word homosexual in literature through time

1870: Invert

Lesbian Terms: Invert

Queer Term: Invert: Sexual inversion was a term used by late 19th and early 20th century sexologists, to express the inborn reversal of gender traits i.e. taking on the gender role of the opposite sex.

In 1870, in the Archiv für Psychiatrie, Karl Friedrich Otto Westphal, an eminent professor of psychiatry at Berlin Charité – Universitätsmedizin Berlin (one of Europe's largest university hospitals) published a detailed account of a young woman who, from her earliest years, was sexually inverted: she liked to dress as a boy, only cared for boys’ games, and as she grew up was sexually attracted only to women, with whom she formed a series of tender relationships.

Surprisingly the term invert was not confined to medical books. A friend of the sexologist, Havelock Ellis who had published Sexual Inversion (1897) which is thought to be the first English medical textbook on the subject of homosexuality, and a believer in his theory of sexual inversion, Radclyffe Hall gave this theory, fictional expression through her infamous novel The Well of Loneliness (1928). Moreover, Havelock Ellis provided a foreword to the novel in which he consistently used the term invert to refer to its "he-was-a-she" protagonist, Stephen Gordon, who bore a strong resemblance to one of Austrian psychiatrist Richard von Krafft-Ebing's case studies. Thank goodness the term invert is no longer used!

1886: Boston Marriage

Lesbian Terms: Boston Marriage

Lesbian Term: Boston Marriage: Merriam Webster definition of Boston marriage = a long-term loving relationship between two women. First known use of Boston marriage = 1893, in the meaning defined above (but no citation given).

Although Henry James never used the term Boston marriage within his book it is most likely the term Boston marriage is derived from his popular novel The Bostonians (1886), which centres around a long-term relationship between two unmarried women living together in Boston. The Bostonians was inspired by Henry James' sister Alice (an American diarist) who lived in such a relationship with American educator Katherine Loring.

A Fascinating Graph: Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Boston Marriage". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Boston Marriage in literature through time

1800s: Spinster (as a coded euphemism for a lesbian)

Lesbian Terms: Spinster (coded euphemism for a lesbian)

Coded Euphemism For Lesbian: Over time the term Spinster became a coded euphemism for lesbian.

  • An Occupation: In the mid-1300s, the term "spinster" was originally used to describe a woman who spins (by hand, wool & thread) for a living. Being a "spinster" was one of the few, yet gruelling trades, that allowed women to earn their own (low paid) income and be financially independent of men.
  • A Legal Status: From the 16th Century, in England, the term "spinster" transitioned into a formal legal designation (official label) to denote a woman who had never been married and became standard in legal documents and church marriage banns (a public announcement made in a church declaring an upcoming marriage that enabled anyone to raise any protests to the marriage).
  • Euphemisms: Over time, spinsters began to be horridly mocked as "old maids" (a term used to deride women who were past an age where it was deemed appropriate for them to be marry) as spinsters did not conform to the religious and hetty (heterosexual) norm of marriage and procreation. The term "spinster" also became a coded euphemism for "lesbian" due to heteronormativity. For example:
    • In Literature: John Lockhart and Sir Walter Scott had tea and Welsh cakes with The Ladies of Llangollen, of which John Lockhart wrote: "We had read histories and descriptions enough of these romantic spinsters, and were prepared to be well amused; but the reality surpassed all expectation." Lockhart, John, The Life of Sir Walter Scott, vol. 3, (1838), pp. 291-292: Source: SublimeWales
    • In Movies: both in Daphne du Maurier's classic 1938 Gothic novel and Alfred Hitchcock's 1940 movie "Rebecca", housekeeper "Mrs" [bizarre, as she was never married?] Danvers is portrayed as an "old maid" spinster + a coded deviant / sinister lesbian.
    Literature and Hays code movies are full of handsome bachelors but rarely of, beautiful spinsters. Wrong, Wrong, Wrong & HORRID, HORRID, HORRID!
  • 2005 - The terms "spinster" and "bachelor" to describe unmarried people on official documents were still in legal use in England and Wales until 5 December 2005 when the Civil Partnership Act 2004 replaced the official terms "spinster" and "bachelor" with the term "single". FYI - I really HATED the term spinster and quite, frankly Miss Shankly, "good" riddance to it :)

Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "Spinster". (Click on the image to enlarge, if you wish)

The usage of the word Spinster in literature through time

1906: Bulldyke > Dyke

Lesbian Terms: Bulldyke / Dyke

Queer Term: Bulldyke: Oxford English Dictionary definition of Bull Dyke = a lesbian, esp. one whose appearance, behaviour, or identity is regarded as masculine. The term "Dyke" (meaning "lesbian") is derived from the word "bulldyke". (Forgive me, I find "Dyke" amusing as, a geologic dike is a flat body of rock that cuts through another type of rock - I am a lezza and... an ex-geologist.)

Though the origin of "bulldyke" is unknown and many theories have been proposed, some of the first references to "bulldyke" appear in American in print.

1906 - Human Sexuality: A Medico-literary Treatise on the Laws, Anomalies, and Relations of Sex by Joseph Richardson Parke, Pg. 309:

"In American homosexual argot, female inverts, or lesbian lovers, are known euphemistically as "bulldykers," whatever that may mean: at least that is their sobriquet in the "Red Light" district of Philadelphia."

1921 - Medical Review of Reviews, "The 'Fairy' and the Lady Lover" by Perry M. Lichtenstein, M.D., pg. 373:

"She stated that she had indulged in the practice of "bull diking," as she termed it. She was a prisoner in one of the reformatories, and there a certain young woman fell in love with her."

1928 - Home to Harlem by Claude McKay, pg. 129:

"Sapphic and Lesbian...beautiful words." "What is that there Leshbian?" "...Lovely word, eh?" "That’s what we calls bulldyker in Harlem," drawled Jake. "Them’s all ugly womens." "Not all. And that’s a damned ugly name," the waiter said. "Harlem is too savage about some things. Bulldyker," the waiter stressed with a sneer.

The term was indeed very ugly, hurtful, vilifying, derogatory... As time has passed, the term "dyke", however, has been reappropriated by some out and proud lesbians. Moreover, "Dyke Marches" have sprung up in cities around the world with thousands upon thousands of lesbian marchers. One of the first Dyke Marches was held on October 17, 1981 by the now-defunct organisation Lesbians Against the Right. 350 women marched the "Dykes in the Streets" through Toronto (Canada) streets to show lesbian power, pride, and visibility. A revelation - sometimes when I'm feeling a wee bit cheeky & rebellious, I do use the term Dyke.

1920s: Lavender Marriage

Lesbian Terms: Lavender Marriage

Queer Term: Lavender Marriage: Lavender Marriage = a term coined to describe a marriage between a man and a woman in which one, or both are gay and is undertaken as a marriage of convenience to conceal the sexual orientation of one or both partners.

During the 1920s the term lavender marriage came into colloquial use with the imposition of morality clauses into the contracts of Hollywood actors. First introduced by Universal Film Company, the morality clauses, permitted the film company to discontinue actors' salaries "if they forfeit the respect of the public". The kind of behaviour deemed unacceptable ranged widely from criminal activity to association with any conduct that was considered indecent or startling to the community. Notably MGM actor William Haines' career was destroyed when he refused to end his relationship with his male partner Jimmy Shields, and enter into a lavender marriage at MGM's discretion. Thus some gay notable Hollywood stars entered into lavender marriages to protect their public reputations, and preserve their careers.

Why the colour lavender? Sappho's poems indicated she fancied younger women with "violet tiaras" and in the 1920s some lesbians gifted violet flowers as an expression of sapphic interest.

1923: Fannian

Berlin lesbian club
Image Source: US Holocaust Memorial Museum / Magnus-Hirschfeld Gesellschaft

Lesbian Term: Fannian is an alternative term / synonym to "Lesbian". Fannian was coined by German psychiatrist Dr Franziska Fischer to scientifically and formally designate a woman who is attracted to women / in a romantic relationship with another woman and crucially, to distinguish it from the broad term of "homosexual" which seemed at the time, more male focussed. Though Franziska Fischer's invaluable lesbian research papers were burnt during the Nazis Bücherverbrennunge (Book Burnings), the term Fannian became a popular synonym for the term "Lesbian" across Europe and America.

The term "Fannian" was first published by Franziska Fischer in a series of booklets (1923–1930) collected under the title "Forschungen über das Räthsel der weiblichen Liebe" (Research into the Riddle of Woman–Female Love) in response to Karl Heinrich Ulrichs' earlier series of booklets (1864–65) "Forschungen über das Räthsel der mannmännlichen Liebe" (Research into the Riddle of Man–Male Love - see above).

Franziska Fischer was a German psychiatrist of noble birth, who was an OUT Fannian in what seems gayful or at least gay tolerant Weimar Republic Berlin and she is, an unsung pioneer of gay women's rights. Franziska undertook extensive research on "Homosexual women" for Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld's Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (Institute for Sexual Science) in Tiergarten, Berlin, Germany. Moreover, Fischer's pioneering research on "Homosexual women" was translated and published across Europe and America, and the term "Fannian" as an alternative to the term "Lesbian", became popular in both academic research and, by women loving women, particularly in creative gay Salons across Europe. Citations of the terms "Fannian" & "Fannia" include "Lesbian Histories and Cultures: An Encyclopedia, Volume 2" (2000) by Bonnie Zimmerman.

Karl Ulrichs' The Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (1919 - 1933) trailblazingly advanced the scientific view that same-sex attraction and gender diversity were NATURAL and, inborn. Deplorably, The The Institut für Sexualwissenschaft's invaluable research materials and thousands of books were publicly burned during the Nazi book burnings (occurring throughout Germany to destroy literature deemed deviant / subversive or "un-German") by members of The Sturmabteilung (aka Stormtroopers), alongside pro-Nazi university students and the German Student Union at the Opernplatz in Berlin, on the 10 May 1933. Soon after the Nazis, took over the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft building in 1933.

Franziska Fischer's original research work and citations to her work, as were other publications covering homosexuality, were among the "subversive" books burnt in Germany and Austria and removed by Nazis across Nazi-occupied Europe. Moreover, catholic countries were not enamoured by her work so her research publications were banned. Yet, until the 1970s, when the word "Lesbian" was reclaimed by women loving women, in ode to Greek poet Sappho, the term "Fannian" had been both an academically respected and popular term to describe a woman who is romantically or sexually attracted to other women.

1930s: Friend of Dorothy

Lesbian Terms: Friend of Dorothy

Queer Term: Friend of Dorothy: in gay code, a friend of Dorothy is a euphemism for a gay man which dates back to at least World War II, when homosexual acts were criminalised. Now the term is used by anybody in the LGBTQ+ community. I L.O.V.E this old-skool term.

The exact origin of the term friend of Dorothy is unknown and there are various theories:

  • Dorothy Parker - in the roaring 1920s and '30s slick, witty writer NYC and socialite Dorothy Parker had many gay friends. When she would throw "famous parties at Garden of Allah's lavish celebrity villas", gay men would use the phrase for entry. Many began using the code for social gay networking as they lived in fear of discovery and persecution.
  • Dorothy from L. Frank Baum's novel The Road to Oz (1909) - the novel is a sequel to The Wonderful Wizard of Oz (1900). When Polychrome meets Dorothy's travelling companions, he exclaims, "You have some queer friends, Dorothy", and she replies, "The queerness doesn't matter, so long as they're friends."
  • Dorothy from the movie The Wizard of Oz (1939) - both the movie, the song "Over The Rainbow" and Judy Garland who starred as Dorothy are gay icons. Note - The stonewall riots coincidentally happened in the early morning hours of June 28, 1969 - Judy Garland's funeral was June 27, 1969.

1930s: The Sewing Circle

Lesbian Terms: The Sewing Circle

Lesbian Term: The Sewing Circle: The Sewing Circle - a discreet code for a network of Hollywood lesbian and bisexual actresses who hung out together.

There is contention as to who came up with the name The Sewing Circle. Alla Nazimova (a Russian-American) actress is credited as coming up with term The Sewing Circle. Thereafter, Marlene Dietrich secretly called her group of Hollywood lesbian and bi women stars, her Sewing Circle. As documented by Axel Madsen in his book The Sewing Circle (1996), this included a surprising array of key Hollywood stars: Greta Garbo, Barbara Stanwyck, Joan Crawford... The Hollywood stars met at one another's Hollywood houses for lunch, conversation and... aye! Playwright Mercedes de Acosta seems to have struck it very lucky there.

1930s: Straight or Bent?

Lesbian / LGBT Terms

"Straight or Bent": Sometime in the early 20th century, colloquial / slang terms emerged for heterosexual = "Straight" and homosexual = "Bent". Why Straight and Bent?

  • Straight:
    The phrase "straight and narrow", which means to live in a honest, moral, and law-abiding way, evolved as a slight misinterpretation of a famous biblical verse.

    Bible verse: "... Strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life ...", Matthew 7:14 appears in the King James Version of the Bible. During the Sermon on the Mount, one of Jesus's "Lessons" is: Living a life of true faith and obedience to God takes discipline and is not the popular or easy choice. In the biblical verse, "Strait" is interpreted to mean narrow, tight, or restricted — not "straight" as in a straight line.

    Idiom For Living An Honest Life: Later, the verse was adapted as the shortened phrases / idioms ""straight and narrow path"" / ""straight and narrow"" where "strait" was substituted with the more familiar word "straight" which visually and conceptually matched the idea of walking an honest route without straying.

    Gay Slang Straight: Circa mid-20th century, "straight" was adapted as gay slang for heterosexuals, derived from the phrase "to go straight" (as in "straight and narrow") i.e. to stop engaging in homosexual sex. One of the earliest uses of "straight" as a synonym for heterosexual, appeared in G. W. Henry's "Sex Variants: A Study of Homosexual Patterns" (1941). Henry's book consisted of extensive case histories on 40 male and 40 female homosexuals, carefully studied psychiatrically and medically, and used the term "straight" in connection with people who are identified as ... "ex-gays".
  • Bent:
    Criminal Slang: As the opposite of ""on the straight and narrow"", the term Bent was adapted as criminal slang to mean thieves, crooked, dishonest, corrupt, or illegal e.g. bent copper (dishonest policeman). One of the earliest uses of "bent" in the context of corrupt, apears, in 1914, in Louis E Jackson and C R Hellyer's "A Vocabulary of Criminal Slang, With Some Examples of Common Usages".

    Gay Slang Bent: The term "Bent", as meaning homosexual, grew in the 1950s as a natural antonym to "Straight" (as in heterosexual). Iconic English pop singer, Dusty Springfield sent England into a tizzy when she courageously told, journalist Ray Connolly for the Evening Standard, in September 1970: "Many other people say I'm bent, and I've heard it so many times that I've almost learned to accept it... I know I'm perfectly as capable of being swayed by a girl as by a boy. More and more people feel that way and I don't see why I shouldn't." Hot stuff for 1970! "Bent" as gay slang for homosexual gained widespread international attention and cultural legacy with the premiere of Martin Sherman's acclaimed 1979 stage play "Bent", which focused on the Nazi persecution of gay men.

1930s+ Lesbian Terms / Slang included: Lizzie, lezzie, leso, les, lezzer, lezza, lemon, and the utterly delightful terms, NOT!: bean flicker, carpet / pussy muncher, muff diver, todger dodger, switch hitter, gillette blade, scissor sister ...

Solidarity with our lovely gay boy friends, who are often our v sweet barfly / clubbing wingmen, Gay men, were also subjected to derogatory terms such as ... bender, bugger (deriving from "buggery", a synonym for sodomy), faggot, fag, Molly, nance, Nancy boy, Jessie boy, sissy, pansy, queen, fairy, poof, poofter, shirt-lifter, bum bandit, fudge packer, wooly woofter ... (as my lovely gay boyfriend, fab Baroque boy, has recalled, while we sipped some sparkling, Cremant).

Contrary to the children's rhyme, sung in playgrounds: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me" - derogatory names DO HURT. Stand tall & keep dancing.

1940 to 60s: The "Three-article Rule"

Lesbian Terms: The Three-article Rule

LGBT Term: The "Three-article Rule": The "Three-article Rule" - targeted American queer people who publicly wore less than three articles of clothing that didn't match their assigned genders, between the 1940s to 60s. Though the term "three-article rule" may have been used by the LGBTQ community as a way to warn each other, it was indeed an informal law that police used to arrest LGBTQ+ people for cross-dressing.

In America, the "three-article rule" stemmed from earlier cross-dressing laws such as an Ohio law passed in 1848 which prohibited a person from appearing in public "in a dress not belonging to his or her sex". During the spread of America's frontier, there was a rise in non-traditional gender expression when for example some women dressed as men to go out and prospect for gold. Those who dressed not "according to their assigned gender" were perceived to threaten the traditional two-gender system. For example, Jean Marie Suize, aka Madame Pantalon, was a gold miner during the Californian gold rush who arrested many times for wearing men's clothes. By the 1850s, over 40 cities in the US had passed anti-cross-dressing laws and by 1917, when the US entered WWI, this had risen to over 150 cities.

Incredulously, in 2023, Tennessee, enacted America's first "Drag Ban," forbidding all drag performances in public or in the presence of minors. At least 2 states in America have introduced similar legislation to criminalize drag. See map.

1960s: "Jailhouse Turnout"

Lesbian / LGBT Terms

A "jailhouse turnout" was used to describe someone who was "introduced" to homosexuality following incarceration.

Historically in movies, Butch prison wardens, Jailhouse lesbians were seen as predatory but this changed with the Australian soap opera, Prisoner: Cell Block H (1979–1986) which spawned many popular TV series, including: Hinter Gittern - Der Frauenknast (1997–2010), Bad Girls (1999–2006), Unité 9 (2012–2019), Orange Is the New Black (2013–2019), Vis a vis (2015–2019) ... featuring love between Jailhouse lesbians and "jailhouse turnouts".

In the past, studies on homosexuality in prison have been the subject of controversy, cynicism, and disapproval. In 2011, Pardue, Arrigo and Murphy published Sex and Sexuality in Women's Prisons: A Preliminary Typological Investigation which brought a more empathetic study (actually, quite interesting to read).

1969: Gay (reappropriated by Gays)

Lesbian Terms: Gay

Queer Term: Gay: The word Gay was originally used to mean "carefree", "cheerful", or "bright and showy" but now primarily refers to a homosexual person or the trait of being homosexual.

During the 12th century the word gay arrived in English via Old French "gai" to mean "carefree", "cheerful". However by the late 17th century, it had evolved to also mean "uninhibited by moral constraints" thus a gay woman was a prostitute, a gay man a womanizer, a gay boy served male clients and a gay house a brothel.

Apparently Bringing Up Baby (1938) was the first movie to use the word gay in reference to homosexuality when Cary Grant wearing a woman's feather-trimmed robe, as his clothes have been sent to the cleaners, replies "Because I just went gay all of a sudden!". In early July 1969, due in large part to the Stonewall riots in June of that year, the Gay Liberation Front was born and the word gay to mean homosexual was appropriated by gays themselves.

1970s: WLW & Herstory

Lesbian Terms: Gay

Queer Acronym: WLW, stands for women-loving woman / women-loving women (and not be confused with Cincinnati radio station WLW (700 AM)). WLW is regarded as an umbrella term used to describe women who are attracted to or are in a relationship with other women, regardless of what their specific sexualities or labels might be.

What's the origin of the term WLW? Sorry, I am not sure - please do enlighten me. Some say that the term WLW women-loving woman / women-loving women originated from Black American slang, during the slick 1920's Harlem Renaissance, with the rise of stellar black female blues artists, like WLW Gertrude 'Ma' Rainey, Lucille Bogan ... ? But perhaps not? Check out More Than You Ever Wanted to Know About "WLW". Personally, I think it was coined /used by lesbian feminists and activists in the 70s, as I can't imagine whiskey galore Harlem Blues singers like Lucille Bogan's calling her song "B.D. Woman's Blues" ("B.D." was short for "bull dykes") = "W.L.W Blues".

Herstory: Cambridge Dictionary definition of "Herstory" = history written from the point of view of women, and giving importance to their experiences and activities. The term "Herstory" (her + story) was coined by American feminists in the 1970s, and was a witty play on the word "History" (his + story). FYI, the word History, however, is not a compound of his + story but derives from the Greek and Latin word "historia", meaning inquiry or narrative.

"You're a Lemon!" - a lemon was sometimes used as an old-skool derogatory term for lesbian. Yes indeed, in the uK, ragged rascals ran around their rugged playground shouting at some girls "You're a Lemon!". Play my fun freeplay online lesbian fruit machine game and find out about the shocking The Fruit Machine - The Canadian Government's Homosexuality Test.

1976: Oxford English Dictionary's New Definition of Lesbian

Lesbian Terms: Gay

Apparently, during the four decades it took to create the 12-volume Oxford English Dictionary (OED), completed in 1928, the word Lesbian appeared only in reference to the island of Lesbos. Only with OED's 1976's Supplement did the word Lesbian appear as an 1890 synonym for Tribadism.

1978 - BTW 1 > The Rainbow Flag

c 1980s?: "She (/ He) Bats For The Other Team"

Lesbian Terms: LGBT acronyms

"She [or He] bats for the other team" is a euphemism for homosexuality.

This is a phrasal template where you can insert your own variables e.g. "plays", "bats", "swings" + "the other team", "the other side". The Etymology is from either cricket or baseball. I can't find when it was first used but I confess I used the term when I was still shy of coming OUT due to incessant homophobia.

c 1992: From GLB To LGBT ... Acronyms

Lesbian Terms: LGBT acronyms

The evolution of our gay acronyms are ever changing and, pining down dates is v hard (do a Google search)!

"GLB" vs "LGB"
1992 - in the 1992 Oxford Dictionary of Acronyms, the acronym:
  • "GLB" was listed and given as "gay, lesbian, bisexual (formerly Girls Life Brigade)". Source
  • "LGB" = "lesbian, gay, bisexual" is not listed in this edition of Oxford Dictionary of Acronyms.
But do consider, the Oxford Dictionary has often been late at including LGBT+ related words.

So when was "L" for lesbian placed at the start of the LGB ... acronym?
Hmm? The Oxford English Dictionary's earliest evidence for "LGB" is from 1985, in "Valley Women's Voice" (Massachusetts). One wonders if there was a bit of personal preference regarding "GLB" vs "LGB" in that lesbians would place "L" first while gay men would place "G" first. DavePhD interestingly consulted Google Ngram Viewer (Google's search engine that charts the frequencies of any set of search strings in a vast collection of books, documents, and other textual sources). Astutely, he pointed out that there are other meanings of GLB and LGB so a search string "GLB students" to "LGB students" might bring up better results - see the results for "GLB students", "LGB students" ...

Why does the "L" come before the "G" in LGBT ...?
Hmm? At first, as indicated above the acronyms "GLB" and "LGB" were used interchangeably according to personal preference. Some have advocated, LGB ... became more used as an acknowledgement of the solidarity lesbians caringly showed to gay HIV/ AIDS sufferers, during the AID crises, and who helped gay men by donating blood to the gay victims, paying for medication, providing them with food and housing and fighting for medical research. Others suggest that it is easier to say LGBT compared to GLBT? Check out the interesting debate on skeptics.stackexchange.com.

LGBT - from about 1988, in the United States, gay activists began to use the acronym LGBT i.e. Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender. The LGBT acronym has now evolved into... LGBTIQCAPGNGFNBA!

What does LGBTIQCAPGNGFNBA stand for? LGBTIQCAPGNGFNBA definition is Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex, Questioning, Curious, Asexual, Pansexual, Gender Nonconforming, Gender-Fluid, Non-Binary, Androgynous. Forgive me, now I got Super‐cali‐fragil‐istic‐expi‐ali‐docious ringing in my head!

c 1990s?: "Dropping Hairpins"

Lesbian / LGBT Terms

"Dropping Hairpins" / "Hairpin Drop": are a euphemism for dropping gay hints during a conversation. "Dropping hairpins" was indeed a gay gambit to suss whether or not it was safe for the person to come out to the other in conversation and, sometimes to induce the other "suspect" to follow suite, particular the object of one's desire.

Wow, "dropping hairpins", is a new slick term I've just learnt! Being shy, I have indeed dropped many hairpins, in the past. Shame, I can't find out when it came into use.

2005: Sapphic: The Rise, The Fall And, The Rise Again

The usage of the word Sapphic in literature through time

After the coinage of the term "Sapphic Verse / Stanza" to describe Sappho's slick characteristic poetic metre / four-line stanzas from circa the mid 16 century, overtime (Etymonline suggests from the 1890s) "sapphic" (maybe via the term "Sapphist") became a synonym for "lesbian" (woman attracted to other women) and a modifier to describe e.g. literature, art, relationships etc.

The graph above displays Google Books Ngram Viewer results for the word "sapphic" (i.e. mentions of the word "sapphic" in Google's data set of printed material from the 1660s to 2022). Interestingly the graph shows a peak in the 1780s with a gradual decline to the 1950s and then from circa the 1990s a gradual rise again to the 2020s. An interpretation? I would offer a theory but I don't want to twist anyone's lemons as I am not a cunning linguist ;) (Forgive, the cheeky double entendre - it is an iconic quote from the James Bond movie "Tomorrow Never Dies" (1997), of slick Miss Moneypenny to 007.) I will, however, add that from the 1990s the word Sapphic, seems to slowly rise again in print via books and academic publications.

Interestingly, Google Trends results for online searches for "Sapphic", in Google, shows a peak in 2005, a gradual fall to the 2010s and then, a gradual and continuing increase in the 2020's. N.B Google's search engine was launched in 1997 but Google Trends data, dates back to only 2004. Moreover, one-word searches (queries) in search engines are v generic. In the early days of search engine algorithms, Google served mixed results for one-word searches as they are understandably too generic. Google has become very savvy (business wise, algorithm wise and data wise) and now claims to be user intent focussed by using e.g. your past search history and current location to serve out "personalised" search results (and cunningly storing users' personal info - to their benefit and usage + harvesting ALL the pages it has indexed to create the data for it's AI overviews without the permission nor compensation to the content producers & holders).

The usage of the word Sapphic in Google Trends

Why the spike of Google searches for "sapphic", in 2005? As an SEO this really pricked up my ears. Alas, the fab "Wayback Machine" does not archive Google Search Results nor are Google's "Tools" filter results for a selected time range e.g. Year 2005, comprehensive (as fairplay, some websites have been mothballed over the years but, possibly the data is restricted?). So why a peak in Google searches for "sapphic" for 2005? Hmm. From 2005 to mid 2006:

  • There doesn't seem to be a movie nor novel that featured "Sapphic" in it's title?
  • There doesn't seem to be an organisation with "Sapphic" in it's name e.g. Sapphic Chicks?
  • There doesn't seem to be a cool popular bar / club night with "Sapphic" in it's name e.g. Sapphics Kicks?
  • Sapphic as an adjective / modifier e.g. Sapphic books, Sapphic movies etc don't seem to be popular searches - see Google Trends graph below
  • Sapphic Erotica / Sapphic Porn, at the time .. wow, clearly appear to be popular searches which seem to echo that trend! - see the Google Trends graph below
Comparison of usage of the 2 worded Sapphic in Google Trends

What could the 2005 peak in Google searches for Sapphic, be possibly attributed to? Don't cancel me :) From the graph above - my 10p bet hypothesis is that particular peak in searches may have been for "sapphic erotica"???!!! Penny for your thoughts - I would love to hear, yours.

2020s: The term, Sapphic, particularly online (e.g. magazines and in social media), is seeing a resurgence by a some as an umbrella term, balancing inclusivity and exclusivity to broadly describe any woman, or woman-aligned person, who feels an attraction toward another women. Some, however, are clearly jumping onto the clickbait trending keyword. Personally, I use Sapphic as a preferred modifier (e.g. Sapphic movies) but, never, as an identity (i.e. I am ... sapphic). Indeed, when tipsily launching this site, during COVID lockdown 2020 NYE's, I had first, consciously SEO'd for Sapphic as a modifier - so I do hope I get some kudos with regard to it's resurgence :)

2008: The Lesbos Islanders Crusade To Reclaim The "Lesbian" Word

2008 - Lesbos Islanders Crusade To Reclaim The Word Lesbian

In June 2008, Greece, a group of residents from the Greek island of Lesbos (the famous birthplace and home of poet Sappho) went to court in a bid to reclaim the word "lesbian" for their islanders.

High court wig on and racey lacey garter beneath the gown ...

The Plaintiffs:
Comprised a group of Lesbos residents, including the publisher of "O Davlos" ("The Torch" - a magazine devoted to ancient Greek religious issues). I'm not disclosing their names as I do not wish them to receive any hate mail.

The Plaintiffs' Goal:
"Lesbians", around the world, should quit using the name of their island, Lesbos, as a label for their sexual orientation and, the term "Lesbian" should only have geographical connotations:

"We are very upset that, worldwide, women who like women have appropriated the name of our island ... Until 1924, according to the Oxford English dictionary, a Lesbian was a native of our isle. Now, because of its new connotations, our womenfolk are unable to call themselves such and, that is wrong",

declared the magazine publisher - source: The Guardian. Read some entertaining excerpts from the court case via Der Spiegel

The Court's Decision:
In July 22 2008, an Athens court dismissed the request by the plaintiffs to ban the use of the word lesbian to describe gay women, stating there was no justification for their claim that the word was an offense or a threat to their rights.

And the gavel resounded throughout the court, to gay cheers. Yamas!

2020s: Embrace YOUR OWN Chosen Term :)

Lesbian / LGBT Terms

Groovers, it's absolutely YOUR choice as to which term you wish to call yourself. Moreover, it's YOUR choice to change it whenever and as many times as you wish to :)

Mine? I've been = "Cake" (my own shy goofy code word which I felt at ease with and liberated with, in my mega slow emergence) > "Gay" > "Queer" (in my return to indie clubbing phase at London's legendary: The Ghetto and, Popstars with special shout out to Duckie's, The Readers Wifes DJs at their awesome Pride events) and currently, I'm back to ... GAY. I'm not flinching - it is everyone's prerogative as to what they wish to identify themselves with :)

2020s: Contemporoary Lesbian Slang

Where's my glossary of current Lesbian slang? So many magazine sites / social media influencers (clickbait) cover contemporoary lesbian slang such as chapstick lesbian, celesbian ... Hands-up, not my cup of tea, so sweeties, go forth and, Google :) Nevertheless, the above vid by Grindr of "Old" lesbians sussing out new lesbian slang is utterly endearing. A shout out to fab them, as in their own way, they helped pave a path for LGBT rights.

Secret Lesbian Signaling: Lesbian Signals & Symbols Through History

Secret Lesbian Signals Via Accessories Through History

In the past, lesbians not only used verbal code words to secretly identify themselves to other girl friends of Dorothy but some lesbians wore particular accessories known as signals to their lesbian community. Lesbians could signal / "eye wink" their sexual orientation by wearing a "special" accessory, without having to verbalise that they were lesbian. Some historical examples of secret / coded lesbian signals, symbols and accessories, include:

  • The timeless Gay Eye Click: you're walking down a street / sitting on the tube ... you look-up and, see someone of the same sex, making eye contact with you, that lasts just a tingling bit longer than normal. Gaydar kicks in - a double check, you both eye click again ... If it's been a flirty click, for a killer telltale thrill - as you leave, quoting Massive Attack ("Safe from Harm"): "I was looking back, to see if you were looking back at me, to see me looking back at you". And groovers, don't be a wally like me - smile!
  • Rings:
    • Pinky rings - is it urban myth that in Victorian times, men and women who were uninterested in marriage would wear a ring on the pinkie (little) finger of their left hand and later gays adopted those coded signal?
    • Thumb rings - Historically thumb rings go way back to ancient China used in archery as a protective tool for drawing the bowstring, and as a symbol of wealth, power ... Sorry, so far in my research I can't ascertain when thumb rings were first adopted by some lesbians - was it in the 1970s, with the rise of Lesbian Feminism that some gutsy lesbians wore thumb rings as a form of sartorial rebellion?
    • Coconut rings - apparently in Brazil, a coconut ring, usually worn on the thumb, is an established symbol of lesbian identity.
  • 1870: Lavender (colour and word) - an early example of lavender being used as a euphemism for a homosexual and homosexuality is in the lyrics of "The Ninety-Ninth Hussars" in, Songs for the Army 46: "Sir Lavender Silk was a pretty young man ... His men, though respectful, had thoughts of their own / Which might have spoke out if they chose, / That Sir Lavender Silk had the aspect alone / Of a Lady dressed up in men's clothes!" source: greensdictofslang.com.

    Why was this particular colour, Lavender, chosen as a euphemism for homosexuality? I've searched until my fingers have turned pink but no concrete answer. The colour Lavender is a pale purple colour - in art, it is created by mixing red and blue to create purple and then adding white. Perhaps Lavender is linked to effeminacy and homosexuality due to Sappho's use of violets and purple in her poetry (see below)? Moreover, Lavender does grow on the island of Lesbos.

    The term lavender has been a double-edged sword - intermittently used as a homophobic term or FU, adopted by the gays! For example, from circa 1920s onwards, with homophobic undertones, some poor soul could be accused of having a "dash" or "streak" of lavender and worse, during the Cold War era, from 1947 to 1975, America succumbed to an unjust "Lavender Scare" (scroll to the documentary "Lavender Scare") during which circa 5,000 gay federal workers lost their jobs.

    Yet Lavender has also been defiantly adopted by the gays to symbolise resistance and empowerment! Considered one of the first gay anthems, from the Weimar Berlin era, "Das Lila Lied" ("The Lavender Song" (hear Ute Lemper's English Version)) was written by Kurt Schwabach and composed by Mischa Spoliansky, came out as a record in 1921 and was performed in Berlin cabarets in the 1920s to great cheers. Moreover, in 1969, a month after the legendary Stonewall Riot in New York - the lavender colour became a symbol of gay empowerment through lavender coloured armbands and sashes being distributed to the marchers of the "gay power" march from Washington Square Park to Stonewall Inn.

    The Lavender Menace Crew - Image Source: NYC LGBT Historic Sites Project

    Round about this time in America, the president of the National Organisation for Women (NOW), Betty Friedan (a leading American feminist writer and activist), used the term "The Lavender Menace" to describe the threat that she believed lesbians posed to the feminist movement (OMG - we are ALL WOMEN) which led to the exclusion of lesbians from the Second Congress To Unite Women, held in NYC, US, in 1970. That certainly lit a match among some lesbians which led to the informal formation of "The Lavender Menace" (named by their defiant "Lavender Menace" logo t-shirts) who were a group of radical lesbians who stormed the stage of the 1970 Second Congress to Unite Women and energetically kick started a conversation on the very topic Betty Friedan had tried so hard to suppress: the inclusion of lesbianism within the feminist movement. Though the brave activists action largely led to NOW's resolution to support lesbians in 1971 and, across America, increased visibility for and awareness of lesbian issues - stubborn Betty, did not fully acknowledge lesbian participation until the 1977 National Women's Conference.
  • 1920s: Violets as in the flower, became a secret romantic gift between lesbians in England and violets, were also worn as an adornment such as violets pinned to a ladies chest or "violet tiaras". Why? Violets featured in the poetry of Sappho, for example: "Many crowns of violets, roses and crocuses ... together you set before me and many scented wreaths made from blossoms around your soft throat ... with pure, sweet oil ... you anointed me, and on a soft, gentle bed ... you quenched your desire ..." Fragment 94 by Sappho (translated by Diane J. Rayor). Throughout history, floriography (a language of flowers, in which particular flowers convey their own special meaning or symbolism) has been utilised to exchange clandestine messages of L.O.V.E (red rose), affection (peonies), desire (pink carnations for a crush), yearning (daffodils) and even, disdain (yellow carnations). Check out which other flowers that became queer symbols. The word "violet" also became code for sapphic love - for example, Damenklub Violetta, (1926 – 1933), in Berlin, Germany which is considered as one of the first documented lesbian bars / clubs in the world. BTW: violet is a spectral colour (a colour composed of a single wavelength - in the 1660s, English physicist and mathematician Isaac Newton discovered that clear white light was composed of seven visible colours: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, and violet which are displayed in rainbows.
  • 1930s: Monocles - during the 1930s, in Paris some lesbians wore a monocle (a single round lens/piece of glass worn in front of one eye ala Cluedo's Colonel Mustard) as a secret lesbian code. It's not quite clear if the famous 1930s lesbian bar "Le Monocle", in Paris, started the fad or the bar's name was inspired by this fad.
  • Triangle Symbols:
    • WWII, Hitler's Nazi Regime: An Inverted Black Triangle Symbol, sewn onto the shirts of concentration / labour camp prisoners, was used to mark prisoners designated as "Asozial" ("asocial" including feminists, lesbians and prostitutes) and Arbeitsscheu ("work-shy"). Find out about some experiences of lesbians during the Nazis Regime.
    • WWII, Hitler's Nazi Regime: An Inverted Pink Triangle Symbol, was used to identify exclusively gay male prisoners.
    • Late 1980s Fuchsia Traingle: in the 1980s, homosexual men across the world were being persecuted due to the new threat of AIDS. In 1987, in New York, a group of six gay men (Avram Finkelstein, Brian Howard, Oliver Johnston, Charles Kreloff, Chris Lione, and Jorge Socarrás) founded the "Silence=Death Project" to raise awareness about the AIDS epidemic. For their logo, they adopted the Nazis Inverted Pink Triangle Symbol, but, pointed their triangle upwards and changed the colour from the Nazis pale pink to a fuchsia colour. After their logo was adopted by ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power), their logo became a well known symbol of AIDS activism. A "Silence=Death Project" poster featuring this triangle is housed in the The Brooklyn Museum.
  • 1970s:
    • The Labrys Symbol - in the 1970s, lesbian feminists adopted the Labrys symbol on t-shirts, keyrings, mugs ... to represent lesbian empowerment. A Labrys is a double-headed axe and is one of the most iconic symbols of the Minoan civilisation - a civilisation that flourished in the Middle Bronze Age (c. 2000 - c. 1450 BCE) on the island of Crete. Archaeological research suggests that the Labrys was not just a weapon but a sacred emblem which was often associated with a powerful female deity, possibly the "Mistress of Animals" or a Great Mother Goddess. The Labrys was adopted by The Mycenaeans, Greeks, and the Romans. Find out more about the Labrys.
    • The Double Venus Symbol: was another symbol adopted by feisty lesbian feminists in the 1970s. Cool titbit - in his 1751 dissertation Plantae hybridae, Swedish botanist and the "father of modern taxonomy", Carl Linnaeus, was the first scientist to use gender symbols, based on the planetary symbols of Mars, Venus and Mercury, to denote whether flowers were male (stamens only - Mars), female (pistil only - Venus) or perfect flowers with both pistils and stamens (hermaphroditic - Mercury). Sorry, I can't find out who the bright spark was, who came up with the double Venus symbol - I wonder if lush vino helped their inspiration (I raise my glass to them).
    • Out, Loud & Proud Lesbian Button Badges were the rage with badge designs including the LGBT rainbow flag, interlocking Venus, sexual identity labels (Dyke, Lesbian etc).
  • 2020s: shockingly, lesbian coded symbols are still crucial in some countries where homosexuality is still illegal. For example, in Burundi, East Africa, some lesbians wear T-shirts with a discreet symbol that is only beknown to their sapphic sisters. Source: BBC
  • A hetty aside: Upside Down Pineapple Symbol - particularly on cruise ships, an upside down pineapple is a code for ... swingers (couples who enjoy swapping sexual partners)!.

Check out the ab fab blog Dressing Dykes: Lesbian Fashion History by dress historian, Eleanor Medhurst.

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This Glossary of Lesbian Terms Through Sapphic History

Why include a glossary of historical terms that were used to label lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBTQ+) communities which, some are extremely offensive? Groovers, sadly everyone is classified / labelled via... colour, ethnicity, religion, sexuality, age, weight, music, fashion etc. Our LGBT community should know historically what awful names the LGBT were labelled / bullied, to appreciate what those historical heroes experienced and fought for our current rights and that such offensive labels are hopefully no longer in use. Thanks to amazing ...

Thanks to amazing lesbian trailblazers in history and other slick sapphic pioneers mentioned throughout this site, youngsters are finding it (hopefully) a tad easier to come out. Yet, we are still sometimes shouted at in the streets or talked behind our backs, with derogatory terms. During the research for this site, I came across some historical lesbian terminology I had never heard of, so I thought it would be interesting to include this historical Lesbian glossary of terms. In this modern age of "enlightenment", I wonder which you would call yourself? Finally, I have found the guts to choose mine = gay / queer :)

BTW - In 1930s London, gay men adopted Polari to secretly communicate with each other without being arrested for violating Britain’s anti-sodomy laws. Polari was a language based on slang which incorporated Italianate words, Romani, Yiddish, Cockney rhyming slang ... and was used originally as a kind of secret language in England by people in theatres, fairgrounds etc. Examples of gay Polari include: "chicken" = a young man, "bear" = large, often hairy man (still used), "meat and two veg = ... penis and testicles and, ... now we know where it comes from, "MINGE" – vulva!

Why not include a Lesbian slang dictionary / glossary? There are plenty of places where you can find out about Lesbian slang and Pillow Princesses, Gold Star Lesbians ...

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PS The Wizard Of Oz - Come Out, Come Out Wherever You Are (1939)

Sipping a glass of Cava ... just discovered these lyrics which made me giggle: "Come out, come out, wherever you are, And meet the young lady who fell from a star". Surely (don't call me Shirley) The Wizard Of Oz is so ... G.A.Y and, the seed to the code term "Are you a friend of Dorothy"?